And Luke paid me off for his face paint in Reeses Peanut Butter Cups!
Monday, October 31, 2011
Trick or Treat
And Luke paid me off for his face paint in Reeses Peanut Butter Cups!
Memorial service, Uttoxeter
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Fundraiser Walk at Quarry Lakes
Kristen and I walked 2 miles around the Quarry Lakes on Sunday to raise money for the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PANCAN). It was a beautiful day for an event. There was food and music, dogs (pictured above is Sunny, wearing a purple pancan bandana), the big pink bear was a hit with the kids...and us (Kristen with bear pictured above). The event was well planned and next year...I'll be back!
In my head I could hear Ron saying..."you walked 2 miles...well done honey!"
Monday, October 24, 2011
Trip to Bolton
Paul McCallion from NDNU, David Bailey at Bolton Wanderers and Patricia very kindly arranged for myself, my grandparents (Flo and Denis) and my Aunt and Uncle (Sandra and Ron) to head up north to Bolton to see them play Sunderland on Saturday.
A couple of hours on a few trains and we arrived at the stadium and were greeted by David, who had met my Dad when he went up to Bolton to visit a few years ago, something to do with the international soccer school that Bolton run. I'm afraid if you are reading this in the States, any reference to soccer shall henceforth be typed as football (sorry, I can't change a life long habit!)
Anyway, David gave us some matchday programmes which had a nice tribute to my Dad which I have scanned and put up on here. Not everyone gets mentioned in a Premier League matchday programme!
It was a nice sunny day, but rather breezy. The game was entertaining, but as we had to leave a little early to catch our train back, we missed both the goals of the game, which came in the last few minutes. Ah well, it was a really good day and nice to meet a few more people who knew my Dad. Thanks to Paul, David and Patricia...
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Pumpkin Time
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
"Angel-versary"
I thought about him all day and tried not to cry. (At least not the big tears.) I am trying to live each day as he would want me to... wake up with a smile, tell a joke, listen to the music you love, and whatever you do-do it with all the passion in your heart. I am trying to "take care of myself" -this includes regular visits to the chiropractor. Today was a rough session since I spent last week camping and sleeping in my truck...I needed a change of scenery and I am so thankful for my parents. They mobilized their trailer and packed all the best "camping food". All I needed to do was show up! I got a little sun on my face, sand in my hair, and some rather annoying mosquito bites on my hands. We had all the best food...barbecued tri-tip, Mom's clam chowder, Dad's famous breakfast omelets and ...bacon (not heart-healthy but worth the risk.)
Yes I did...sleep in my truck...my stuffed black bear doubled as an extra pillow
and something to hug....
Monday, October 17, 2011
iCURE PC
over 4 million new iPhone 4GS phones will be sold in the next few weeks...
What if there were an iCURE PC app (i cure pancreatic cancer) on every phone?
Then Apple lovers could participate in the cure for pancreatic cancer....
Until then, I will be walking next weekend at an event to raise money for the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network. I know many of you have already donated in Ron's memory. (Thank You!) Just in case you haven't, I will gladly recycle your cans, count your loose change, and possibly do your laundry in hopes of finding a random quarter in the dryer... every little bit helps.
iCURE PC for RC.
What if?
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Friday, October 14, 2011
One of these is not like the others...
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Monday, October 10, 2011
A Bad Apple and tennis balls
Steve Jobs could easily have been famous for funding research to save the 44,000 men and women diagnosed with pancreatic cancer each year...and the IPOD!
what if...?
Bad Apple.
I'm not ok. I'm mad. I need to schedule surgery for myself. I have two, large fibroid tumors, literally the size of tennis balls...(it's not always soccer...) and they need to be removed. Recovery from surgery is six to eight weeks. Maybe the physical pain will overlap my emotional pain. I know I will not have to go through it alone. But I will have to go through it without my husband. I really am "just" ok right now. Tomorrow may be a better day. I never liked tennis!
Sunday, October 9, 2011
A thank you
It was fantastic to hear from everyone who spoke at the service and I’d like to thank everyone who had the courage to stand up and speak so graciously. It was amazing to hear how many people’s lives have been touched by my Dad in such a short period of time. The geographical distance meant that while I could hear about what Dad was up to over in the States, I rarely got to see it firsthand. I will always be proud of what he achieved, having moved to California not knowing what lay head.
While the speed of his illness was a shock, I am grateful I got to spend a few months with him and say some of those things that one might regret not being able to say to someone if they leave us suddenly. It was difficult being so far from home and friends, but so many people helped my Dad, myself, my grandparents and Patricia.
I would like to thank Patricia, who somehow had to cope throughout the entirety of Dad’s illness and looked after him so incredibly. I will never know how she did it and I’m sure her family and friends are looking after her now.
Also, I must thank Patricia’s parents, John and Margaret, as well as Mary and Ethan and the family, Cathy, Kristen, Marcy, Stacy, Vicky, Paul and everyone who helped in any way. I have more than likely forgotten to mention people and probably not spelled the names of those I remembered correctly! All these people did so much for my Dad and the family and helped us through difficult times.
It would be great to try to keep up with things over there, how the soccer teams are doing and things like that. If anyone would like to get in touch with me, my email is jamie.chell@sky.com and you can use that to find me on facebook.
There’s lots more things I’d like to say, but there probably isn’t the room on here and us Brits aren’t very good at this kind of stuff, see “stiff upper lip” on Wikipedia... So I’d just like to say to everyone who knew my Dad, thanks for being a part of his life and he lives on in all our memories.
Jamie
Sunday, October 2, 2011
waves
Ron and I "have" ( I am not ready for past tense) a favorite beach and I went there today. I brought his IPOD along and shuffled his music. I definitely cried but I needed to. I know Ron was with me on the shore. I admit to "throwing like a girl" so I was not surprised when the rose I threw came back in the surf....or maybe Ron sent it back to make me smile. Then shortly after he sent a crashing wave that "caught" me and soaked me to my knees. I realized when I got home that my cuffed jeans had an ample amount of sand hidden inside...and was soon deposited on my sofa...
Journeys
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Yesterday and Today
It was an outstanding day.
It was joyful and sad
It was the day we celebrated Ron's life
Friends and Family, Players and coaches
Together we loved Him